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You Are An ISTJ

The Duty Fulfiller You are responsible, reliable, and hardworking - you get the job done. You prefer productive hobbies, like woodworking or knitting. Quiet and serious, you are well prepared for whatever life hands you. You are conservative and down-to-earth. You hardly ever do anything crazy. In love, you are loyal and honest. If you commit yourself to someone, then you're fully committed. For you, love is something that happens naturally. And you don't need romantic gestures to feel loved. At work, you remember details well and are happy to take on any responsibility. You would make a great business executive, accountant, or lawyer. How you see yourself: Decisive, stable, and dependable When other people don't get you, they see you as: Boring, conservative, and egotistical

What's Your Personality Type?

“人要是没有了理想，那和咸鱼有什么区别”。

"一個人有夢想是很美的事，再不追尋，夢想就會破滅，我當時就領悟到，我不想過有遺憾的人生，很多人不敢追求夢想就是怕失敗，但我了解到所謂成功和失敗，不是別人眼中所看的，我個人的定義認為能夠追尋夢想就是成功的定義，我要做一個對自己來說是負責任的決定，不是為了別人，滿足別人及家人的期盼而自己不快樂。"

This is a part of sinchew article... Serve as a reminder especially for a lifeless and uneventful young adult like me. Well, what to say? Have a nice day from bon jovi!

Work work work

在職場不做徒勞無功的事:
記得以前有位同事離職前多拉了幾個人走，
以為會對公司的業務造成影響，
經我觀察的結果做了結論：完全沒有影響，
缺人找人，頂多資深員工辛苦點，對公司來說，
「所有員工在職時都很重要，離職後都不重要」，
沒有一個員工是非留不可的，

這似乎就是職場常態近20年以來，
我長時間在美台兩地以理財專家的立埸談理財，
幫助客戶及社會大眾做好理財。
我常強調做好理財的目的是錢盡其用，
讓錢發揮最大的效用，
一個相關的重要原則就是凡事講究划算。
我覺得以這樣的現實觀點來看工作，
和我倡議的『回到蠻荒』觀點倒是有相通的地方，
那就是不做徒勞無功的事，或沒有成果的事。
蠻荒的動物都能秉持這樣的原則工作。
所以依現實的原則看工作，
現代人工作的目的應該只是為了能賺錢，除此以外無他。
以下是探討這類觀點的專家所提供的一些工作原則，
不妨做為參考：

原則一：工作真的只是一份工作不要期待工作與生活能兼顧，
事實上也沒幾個人能將工作與生活成功的整合起來，
工作並不是生活，我們工作是為了要過生活，
或保有自己所喜歡的生活。想想看，
你一天或一個禮拜能有多少時間和家人相處，
或和親朋好友去做一些你喜歡做的事，
就可以知道要兼顧工作與生活是不可能的。
工作只是工作，目的是為了賺錢。

原則二：不要害怕換工作工作既是為了賺錢，
只要可能賺更多錢，或做起來更愉快、
更有滿足慼，何妨就換工作？而且，
以這樣的原則換工作，
收入當然會越換越多，
跳槽可能也會變得稀鬆平常。
只要每次工作時都全力以赴，
有稱職的表現，對雇主和業界都能交代，
應該隨時可以找到下一個工作的機會。

原則三：一鳥在手勝過十鳥在林
很多公司都聲稱他們有優渥的福利制度，
包括退休金計劃。可是不斷有事實告訴我們，
越來越多的人在屆滿退休之前就失去工作了。
所以爭取眼前的福利可能更實際，
比較值得期待，例如包括健康醫療保障在內的團體保險、
托嬰照顧、親職休假、績效獎金的分發，
增加加班費或年終獎金等等。

原則四：謀生本事不厭其多新世紀的工作與收入可能會變得不穩定，
產業的興衰或輪替也會變得快速無比，
在同一家企業內辛苦一輩子可能會以失業收場。
所以橫向拓展各方面的技能，
會比縱向的在企業的組織內向上攀爬追求位高權重還要實際。
其實現在已有不少企業也『學會』了一些聰明的技巧，
對授予好聽的高階職位並不吝惜，
可以讓你擁有耀眼的頭銜，但對薪資增加並沒有多大幫助。
與其追求這種虛名，不如讓自己能具備十八般武藝可以多方面賺錢，
隨時跳槽。

原則五：做好份內工作就回家去再提醒你，
工作只是工作，公司少了你一個人的工作，
照樣可以運轉下去。
踏實的學習你的工作所該具備的技能，
努力做好你的工作，
但不要奢望你可以憑一己之力多為公司創造多少業績或產能。
不要因此耗掉你大量的私人時間，
讓自己從生活中抽離出來。
記住，做好自己份內的工作，然後回家去。

原則六：遠離辦公室政治你工作的目的是為賺取合理的收入，
而不是追求虛名與權位，
所以不用在心思在辦公室政治上。
當紅炸子雞可能因改朝換代而去職走路，
被冰凍的失志衰老也可能鹹魚翻身。
與其耗費時間介入這些無實際意義的辦公室鬥爭，
不如多花時間在自己的家庭。

Quote from: http://chinese.cari.com.my/

Past and Present

Phew...time passed so fast. I didn't write for such a long time.

When i look back on my blog, i just feel i like cock talking... Hahaha... well that is the past, i guess we should look forward to dream for something we want...

This is how i feel when i look back of my primary school life , secondary and University... I recall back a lot of fun stuff during my primary school. Secondary = I feel like the most liveless and dullest moment in my life.Where i dun feel like remembering what i am doing that time.

I start to realise life is like a series of drama, where what you did, it can be recall and you will laugh, smile or even feel down for that. Life only once, and it is all depends on you, how you make it interesting.

Today is 17th Decemeber 2006, i already pass the quarter of my life. I give myself 80 years old...hahaha. There is a lot of thing i still dream for, i want to do.. i don't want to be my secondary school life.

Write a wonderful blog is never the aim of my dream, therefore dun expect much from my blog lar... hahahha. But i welcome people's comment , good or bad, compliment or complain, anything.

It is time for me to stop. I guess i will come back once a while, not like as active as my past. I hope i can create something greatness memories in my life. And i will definitely back here to share this. Till we meet again. See ya !

"Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies"

Migrate to other country ?

Recently, my friends all are discussing the issue of Malaysia- the islamic country, And some news about our MCA wakil kena threaten because of the sensitive issue.

Of course, here we are not saying who's right, or wrong. But I really feel sad to look at this kind of thing. I really ponder about what happening in our country. Maybe it is time to think about my future...

One of my friends is decided to migrate to foreign country, and others have the mind as well. I am not going to do that because i am not rich, and it is basically escaping from the problem only.

Problem in Malaysia = People migrate to other place. Problem still there.

My feeling is very complicated at that moment. This time i am not going to come out with critics and opinion, instead i will put a song from Edison Chen to express myself better.


MC仁 Rap :

係得呢個地方出世就要係呢個地方度死

有人會睇到黃金片地 呢度係一塊福地

有人會睇到唔一樣 樣樣野一敗塗地

有人會識得處身處地 有人會選擇逃避

有人會認為呢個係環境同人既問題

你地既文化一潭死水亦會居安思危

七百萬隻螞蟻 唔容易走埋一齊

向住同一個方向睇 一定會搵到大前題

係同一種人 點解要將人睇低 係同一種人

可以學埋同一種語文

講第二種語文唔表示你係第二種人

I Rap da police I Rap da government

跌得起 輸得起 搵塊鏡照下自己

香港人至叻 唔使靠人個個靠自己

唔怕攬住一齊死 使乜怕從頭做起

要有訂企 首先要企硬自己


*同热爱这遍土地大家刻骨铭记 愁或喜生与死也是香港地*

P.S : try to read in cantonese, or else you will feel weird ^^

Gentlemen

This topic i will review how our malaysian especially chinese's perception on GENTLEMEN.

Come guys, let's stand up and be a real gentlemen !

I guess all the guy who has girlfriend sure will thanks me after reading this. It inspires me to write this because i see among my friends who suffer it. Gentlement is a word = high price for guys. Why i say so ?

Ok, here the situation, Ah beng and Jennifer are University student. One day, Ah Beng's girlfriend birthday, (Jennifer) she decided to organize it in a restorant. She invites all her friends come along to celebrate.

Ok, the wrong signal of gentlemen come liao, be ready guys :

Jennifer frens : Hey, who organize this birthday party for you ? This place is good lar. (of coz good lar.. restaurant mar not MC D also )

Jennifer: My bf lor... ah beng. ( actually this girl already plan very long time ago ) He really loves me and He already paid for the whole party.

Jennifer frens : Wah, your bf so gentlemen lar ( in another word: generous ) and so love you.

Jennifer : Yalor yalor ( of course lar, my birthday wor, must celebrate for me.... seems like got face and standing at the top of Mountain Everest )

Ah Beng: As long as Jennifer happy lar... ( actually he is crying inside his heart ) Then everyone laugh.

My OX-ford dictionary : a man who is polite and well educated, who has excellent manners and always behave well.

Ok, usually this word utter from girl as compliment towards guys for being helpful. ( It needs two gender MALE + FEMALE to really happen this situation )

Or in the prom nite or function, usually when guy wearing nice, it looks gentlemen ! But the converstation above is all base on money... the evaluate the relationship.

Ok, let'see what is my definition of GENTLEMEN

In western country, gentlemen is being correctly use. when man walk down to stair, he saw a girl walking as well, He will walk infront of the girl at stair. When walk up the stair, girls will be at front of the guys, vice versa.

You know why ? this is to prevent girls from falling into front or behind, because there is still a guy to protect and hold you ! That's why male and female is differently body shape and strength. We guys with strenght can help what the girl who don't have. And certainly not evaluate with money !

And another case in Europe, Britain for example. Try to imagine that 1940 in London, there is a large formal party. So they will dance formally. Girls will certainly wear big big dress and guys will wear like a gentlemen.

Ok, when they stop dancing, a couple move to a table and sit. The guy will not sit first, he will stand beside the girl on her chair . The girl will stand up and put her both hands on the buttock to press down the dress... and the dress is long as well so it really needs both hands. The guy will push the chair until girl sit down. Then the guy only go back to his seat.

Isn't that romantic and nice compare to the ah beng's girlfriend birthday ?

In US, girls are not particularly like to being treat by guy, for example like meal. They feel they are still able to afford a meal, and why guys to pay for us ? They are more independent in term of thinking compare to Asian Woman. See, what is the difference ?

Let me get to the point, chinese society always claim gentlemen in more like generous people. But generous need money.

As a result, you will find out in our common chinese society : Rich People = Gentlemen , Poor People = Not Gentlemen

I am not rich , and i am not that poor. Then who am i ?

This perception is deadly wrong and only will lead us to Kiasu society which like the Perodua Kancil Ads.It is a good mirror to reflect ourselves actually which i don't why it get banned. And in Singapore, the money minded thinking is already deep into their society.

My JB frens warn me to not get a girlfriend from Singapore, or else i will in deep shit !

So girls out there, please don't torture your boyfriend, unless he is really rich ass lar... hahahahaha..

But we are all the same. We have the same pocket money from parents also. Guys do not get extra money to being gentlemen. If i tell my father this, i m sure he is going to whack me, or tell me to do gender- change operation to become female so i don't worry about money.

Sometimes money isn't the only way to judge how much he loves you. Notice what he did when you need help, he will give you a hand no matter how hard or far you are. Of course not to expect girl to utter the word : "Oh, you are so gentlemen" in every detail of our life. But at least, you know he cares about you. He loves you !

You Don't Blame The Grape Sour Because You Can't Eat It

Yesterday i just had chit chat with my friend. Then in the middle of the conversation, we touch about gym.Gym is a quite restrict topic for some people.

Some they never want to go gym, it need moneys. ( Nothing to say, you pay the money, you get the things you want )

Some they feel gym is only for big muscle guy and they will be like WWF Wrestle, ( Not everyone is going to train like Triple H or The Rock ), why don't you say Brad Pitt ?

I am not a boxer nor I a wrestler and I do not play rugby. I do not need to have those mass to pin my opponent down. So, I admire The Rock and Triple H, but I never want to have their type of bodies. ( They train so big because of profession need, you need not to respect but you don't despise people )

Oh , come on. What's wrong to be like me ?

Apart from that, correct me if I were wrong. Girls do not like guys with body builders' body. No girl will ever want her boyfriend's chest to be bigger than hers. Even if I were not a girl, I myself could not stand to see a man with C cup chest like the one in the below picture.

He should wear a bra. What do you think?

Let's go to another extreme case, how about Bruce Lee? Yeap, he has almost no body fat. Nope, I do not think I will look great with that body shape. Chow Sing Chi has a lean and fit body too in Kung Fu Hustle, but he is a bit too thin.

His kung fu is great but too thin

Brad Pitt's body is good, it is merely a dream for appeton boy like me to get the body like him.

Some will think the big muscle will become flabby when we become old. ( The breast also will become flabby, it just the old lady cover it well -* try not to imagine if can )

Ok i stop with dirty jokes here. Let me straight to my point.

The situation is : Why people would like to create excuse for themselves, and to hypnotize themself to being safe or right. It is no different as an ostrich trying to hide its head inside the hole. Ok, i make two examples.

Let's say a skinny guy saw a muscular V-shape guy train his body inside a gym. The skinny
guy will say: Aiks ! ( Train so big muscle, at the end also flabby lar... ) another quote from my friends ( Train so big, your dick will getting smaller and smaller because your body size is getting bigger and bigger ) -This is because of illusion thingy lar

I don't blame him to be so pesimistic. But if one day, you make your wish. You sleep and wake up realise that you got the shape of Brad Pitt. Do you worry of your muscle will flabby or your dick become smaller because of illusion thingy ?

I bet you want naked immediately and running the house for whole day. So what's the point you see ?

A poor working class driving 5 years second hand years old Nissan Sunny always look at the Rich People driving luxury car. One day he saw one Nissan car also...But Nissan Skyline lar. He will act the same as above, aiya your daddy rich ass mar...

Wow, Nissan Skyline wor... not Nissan Sunny or Nissan Sunline ler.

The point is you want something , you work out for it. You don't blame the grape sour because you can't eat it .

For Brad Pitt: I go to gym most 5 times a weeks. I specifically work out on my six packs for two hours. And my tripes and biseps for 3 hours. I deserved to be having a great body shape.

For the Nissan Skyline driver : This is my dream car, i have been saving money for 5 years. I work for day shift and part time job. Finally i able to buy it.

Why people would like to think negatively when they can't get the things ? To hypnotize that it is not a big deal to get that ? we don't give a shit to them ? So we despise them ?

Well,the things isn't that shallow as we see. Why don't people think of the real efforts behind ? They deserved to get it because of what they did. They pay a lot of thing from just the appearance you see. Yeah...you can say it is lucky, kena lottery. But it ain't going to buy u things forever ! Sometimes money can't buy all the things in our life.

You don't blame the grape sour because you can't eat it. Start to think from a good perspective and positive way in our life and towards people as well.

PS : The above is chinese idioms, however i find the same meaning in another version and those english ed you can get what i mean :

COGITO, ERGO SUM
DON'T BLAME OTHERS FOR BEING CLEVER, BUT BLAME YOURSELF FOR BEING IGNORANT.